Page 80 of Run Omega Run
The stone-placing ceremony began without formal announcement. One by one, the children approached the altar to place river stones around Mom's urn, each placement representing strength that would outlast individual existence, community support that transcended mortality.
Dylan went first, his thin frame moving with careful dignity as he selected a smooth gray stone and positioned it at the urn's base. "Thank you for taking care of Heather so she could take care of us," he whispered, words barely audible.
Tomas followed, his stone placement accompanied by the first words he'd spoken directly to Mom's memory: "You made the scary things less scary." His observation captured something essential about her gift for creating safety in spaces that had once felt dangerous or uncertain.
Each child added their own stone and gentle words. There was gratitude for bedtime stories, for birthday celebrations crafted from donated supplies, for the particular attention she'd paid to making each arrival feel welcomed rather than burdensome. The lost girls took part with shy reverence, their stones representing appreciation for the woman whose influence had shaped the person who'd claimed them as daughters.
Even Loubie Lou contributed, needing help to reach the altar but insisting on placing her own carefully selected stone. "Pretty Mama," she announced with satisfaction, patting the urn gently as if tucking someone into bed.
The ceremony concluded with the traditional blessing of salt and lavender sprinkled over the completed stone circle while I spoke words that had been passed down through generations of Omegas who'd understood that love was the only legacy that mattered.
"May your spirit find peace," I said, my hands steady now as I completed the final ritual elements. "May your love live on in the children you claimed. And may we honor your memory by loving as freely as you taught us to love."
The scent of lavender intensified as the sachets began their slow burn, purple smoke rising toward oak branches in spirals that seemed to carry prayers and promises toward whatever realm housed spirits who'd completed their earthly service.
She was at rest now, honored according to traditions that celebrated her life rather than simply mourning her death, surrounded by evidence of love that would outlast mortality and continue growing in the hearts of everyone she'd touched.
Afterward, the funeral ceremony's formal solemnity gave way to the quieter intimacy that followed important rituals. The garden behind us still held traces of lavender smoke that spiraled upward toward oak branches, carrying with it the final blessing of a life well-lived and properly honored. But here on the porch, removed from ceremonial space, we could process grief in the unhurried way that healing required.
Loubie Lou had claimed my lap with territorial certainty. Her precious bunny was sandwiched between us, its worn fur soft against my arms as she settled into a trusting stillness that spoke of safety.
Susie arranged herself on the step beside us, her wild red hair catching late afternoon light in ways that made the color seem almost alive. The ceremony's emotional strain had subdued her usual teenage energy, but her presence provided steady support.
The sounds of our expanded household drifted from inside the mansion, the lost girls helping with dinner preparation while the other children resumed activities that had been suspended for the funeral. Life continuing, routines reestablishing themselves, healing happening in the spaces between formal grief and daily necessity. The normalcy felt both comforting and strange after the intensity of the ceremonial goodbye.
"Where's Mama now?" Loubie Lou asked. Her wide eyes searched my face for answers that would make sense of a disappearance that felt complete and permanent, unlike the temporary absences that had characterized every other separation she'd experienced.
The question pierced through the careful composure I'd maintained during the ceremony, hitting emotional territories that I couldn't address. How did you explain death to someone whose understanding of the world was built on presence and absence, on people either being available for hugs and stories or simply being somewhere else until they returned?
"Mama is with the angels now," I repeated the explanation I'd used before, though I could see from her expression that it remained unsatisfying. "Even though we can't see her anymore, she's watching over us from heaven, making sure we're safe and loved."
Her small face scrunched with concentration as she processed this information, tiny fingers working against her bunny's ears in the self-soothing gesture that appeared whenever she was struggling to understand adult concepts.
"But I want her here," she said, her bottom lip beginning to tremble with distress that belonged to losses too large for small hearts to contain. "I want Mama to sing songs and make the scary dreams go away."
Tears filled my eyes as I recognized the fundamental injustice she was articulating, that death had stolen someonewhose love and care were irreplaceable, leaving behind absence where presence had provided security and comfort. Her grief was pure, making it heartbreaking.
"I know, sweetheart," I whispered, pulling her closer against my chest where my heartbeat might provide some substitute for the comfort she was seeking. "We all want her here too. I want her here so much it makes my chest hurt sometimes."
Susie shifted closer. She reached across to smooth Loubie Lou's hair with gentle fingers that carried more maternal instinct than her fourteen years should have possessed.
"She'll always be with you," Susie said, her voice carrying conviction that seemed to come from personal experience rather than empty reassurance. "Not in ways you can see or touch, but in ways that matter even more. She'll keep you safe in your dreams, and she'll help you be brave when things feel scary."
Loubie Lou considered this explanation. Her grip on her bunny tightened as she processed the idea that protection and love might continue even when the person providing them couldn't be seen or touched.
"Like when I'm sleeping?" She asked. "She keeps the monsters away when I can't see her?"
"Exactly like that," I confirmed, feeling a smile emerge despite the tears that continued to track down my cheeks. "Even when you're sleeping, even when you can't see her, she's still taking care of you. Still making sure nothing bad happens to her special little girl."
The explanation seemed to satisfy something essential in her understanding, and her trembling lip steadied as she processed the concept that love might be stronger than disappearance.
"Will she know if I'm being good?" she asked.
"She'll know you're being exactly who you're supposed to be," Susie said firmly, her voice carrying absolute conviction that made arguing impossible. "Good days, grumpy days, andeverything in between. She loved you for who you are, not for being perfect all the time."
This assurance seemed to complete whatever internal process had been working through grief and confusion toward acceptance. Loubie Lou's body relaxed against mine, her breathing deepening as tension released and trust reestablished itself in the safety of being held by people who'd chosen to love her without conditions or limitations.
"My bunny misses her too," she announced with the matter-of-fact tone that characterized toddler observations about emotional realities adults preferred to complicate. "But he says she sent him to take care of me until she can come back."
