recorded for eternity—
 
 a bestselling fictionalization,
 
 so the world wouldn’t see
 
 precisely who we are—
 
 my mixed-up, messed-
 
 up family, a convoluted
 
 collection of mostly regular
 
 people, somehow strengthened
 
 by indissoluble love, despite
 
 an ever-present undercurrent
 
 of pain. The saga started here:
 
 Foreword
 
 Kristina Georgia Snow
 
 gave me life in her seventeenth
 
 year. She’s my mother,
 
 but never bothered to be
 
 my mom. That job fell
 
 to her mother, my grandmother,
 
 Marie, whose unfailing love
 
 made her Mom even before
 
 she and Dad (Kristina’s stepfather,
 
 Scott) adopted me. That was
 
 really your decision, Mom claims.
 
 You were three when you started
 
 calling us Mama and Papa.
 
 The other kids in your playgroup
 
 had them. You wanted them too.
 
 We became an official
 
 legal family when I was four.
 
 My memory of that day is hazy