Page 98 of Better Hate than Never

My heart leaps—he’s wanted me the way I’ve wanted him.

But then it plummets—because it’s so hard to reconcile thatwhile he says how deeply he desired me, he spent night after night sharing an intimacy with others that I’ve never even experienced. I don’t judge him for it, but I don’t understand it. I know why I want Christopher—why crossing that bridge of physical appreciation to a deeper desire has been so much swifter than it has been for others. He’s never been a stranger to me. Even when he made me angry, I knew him, the sound of his voice, the scent of his skin. I knew he loved my family and would do anything for them. Iknewhim, and in some way I think I knew how much he knew me, how much he saw me even though he didn’t understand me, even though—as he admitted that night he came and made pasta—my choices scared him.

There’s so much about each other that in simply sharing nearly our whole lives, we know—that’s familiar and understood. And yet there’s so much left to learn.

I’m scared of where and how to begin. But as someone who’s bungee jumped, skydived, who’s taken those terrifying, free-fall leaps, I know sometimes the fear doesn’t leave—bravery just joins it.

And I know this is one of those moments.

I swallow nervously, my hands coming up to his chest. “Do you remember, back when I was taking photos at work, when you said you could be patient, if I needed time to open up to you about certain things?”

He nods.

“So... my body needs that, too.”

He rears back, his eyes meeting mine. “Needs... time?”

“Yeah,” I say softly. “I know last night happened, but... that’s not typical.”

“No,” he agrees, his voice deep and rough. “No, it’s not.”

“Before we did that again, I’d...” I draw in a long breath, then blow it out, steadying myself. “I’d need time until I’m ready. Can you wait?”

“Of course,” he says quickly, his hands coming gently to my shoulders, soothing them. “Of course I can wait.”

“And you’d be with no one else while you waited?”

He looks deeply offended. “Kate, of course I wouldn’t. I told you, I just want you. I don’t want anyone else.”

Can it be that easy? “What if I’m not talking days of abstinence, Christopher? What if I’m talking weeks?”

I watch it sink in. “Weeks,” he finally says. He exhales slowly. “I can do weeks.”

“You can?”

He scrubs his face and sighs bleakly. “Considering Ihavebeen the past three weeks,” he says, the first nip of irritation threading through his voice. “Yes.”

“You have?”

“Yes. For the same reason I’m saying I’ll wait now. I wanted you and no one else, and I still do. Could you act a little less surprised?”

“I’m sorry,” I whisper.

Christopher sighs, pulling me close for a gentle hug. “I’m the one who should be sorry. I shouldn’t have snapped like that. It’s just... I want you to believe me.”

“I do believe you. I believe you mean it. I just don’t know if it means to you what it means to me.”

He sets his chin on my head and says quietly, “I don’t know what you’re saying, Kate.”

My nerves get the best of me for a moment, but I make myself take a deep breath, then say, “For me, physical intimacy needs to be... emotionally grounded. I don’t do casual sex. And unless I’m mistaken, that’s all you’ve ever done.”

Christopher pulls back, his jaw hard as he searches my eyes. “That’s true, yes. But casual isn’t what I want with you.” He swallows roughly, then lifts my hand and turns it so my palm faces him. He bends and presses a kiss there, his tongue brushing myskin so lightly, I almost don’t believe it happened. A shiver waves through me, and this time it’s got nothing to do with being cold.

“I’ll show you that. I’ll wait,” he says. “As long as you need me to.”

“Even if I need a month?” I venture, expecting him to laugh or choke, but he just brings my hand to his cheek, holding it there.

“A month,” he agrees. “If—”

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